So I talked to the Superintendent today. He was such a nice man. He ended up returning my call right while I was walking around some random street in Holladay trying to find Maxwell's new piano teacher. But I talked to him. Yesiree.
"What was your thinking behind deciding not to show the Obama speech?"
Well there was such an outcry from parents who didn't want students to watch the speech that I decided that since there were so many other mediums for the students to watch, I felt that it would be okay to not have students watch it at school.
"Well, I see your point, that there are many other ways for students to watch the speech, but I think you missed a great opportunity for students to come together with American students from all across the country to listen to the president. I remember watching Ronald Reagan when I was in elementary school and thought that it was cool that I was watching it with kids all over America. I think you made a decision out of fear, instead of doing what is right. I think you could have more backbone.
I didn't make the decision out of fear. When I have 9,000 kids to represent I have to do what I think is best for the whole group. I wouldn't have minded if my own kids had watched the speech at school, but there was such an outcry against showing it that I had to do what I thought was best for everyone.
"What were the numbers really like? Are you sure that there were not just a few mouthy people? Were there real numbers to support this?"
I don't have real numbers. But if I had to guess I would say that there were 50 callers opposed to the speech for every 1 caller in support of the speech.
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At that point the conversation was pretty much over, because what do I say then? I think I said that my community scares me, and that I wanted to move. I know I told him how much I appreciated his call and his time.
I saw how his hands were tied. How difficult doing what is right became.
Once Professor Perry drew something on the board, I'll see if I can re-create it.
He said that in the 50's the political spectrum looked like this.
--------------------------Liberal\Conservative---------------------
He was basically saying that in the fifties, the political spectrum on both sides were closer to the center. That the distance between liberal and conservative wasn't so far apart. Then he drew this.
Liberal---------------------------\--------------------Conservative
He said that now the gap between liberals and conservative is growing. Becoming more polarized. He said that if we don't come closer together there will be only one way to resolve our differences, to narrow the gap. That one way would be war. Civil war. The further we get from each other, the closer we move to civil war.
So the fact that thousands of American's wouldn't let their kids watch the speech isn't so bad. It is just a speech. But, what IS really bad is the fact that these parents won't let their kids listen, hear, or see a president that does not fall on their side of the political spectrum. When we can't even listen to each other, have basic respect for a varying point of view. We are in trouble. Big trouble. So while I see everyone's point in saying that we can all just watch this at home, why is it necessary for kids to watch it at school? My answer is this. We are raising a generation that can't even sit in the same room with one another and watch a speech. We are raising a generation where the liberal's have to go to the media room and the conservatives go to recess because we can't stand each other. We are raising a generation that moves further and further from each other.
Every person who called in opposition to the speech just told their kids that it's okay not to listen to anyone who thinks differently than themselves.
And that is shameful.
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May I be the first to say "thank you." Thank you for this post. It is perfect.
Amen and hallelujah. Barry Newbold used to be our stake president, and I do believe that he has a good heart, but it is a really hard place to be. Good for you for calling, and thanks for sharing his responses. Loved your comments at the end, too. I think you are absolutely right. It is true, though, that if Sarah Palin ever is in a position to speak to my kids at school, my open minded resolve will surely be put to the test.....
I would love it if Sarah Palin talked to my kids. What fun!
Great post and good for you for calling. I usually whine without doing much.
I agree with you on the polarization problem. I now am so immersed in liberal-mania, a full swing in the spectrum from BYU.
It was refreshing for about a day.
It is scary how once somebody decides what "camp" they're in, they set the brain to cruise control and become opiniated idiots who don't think about issues separately from their party.
Amen and Amen! As you know, I called the school and complained. Why shouldn't my son be able to watch the President of our country! I didn't vote for the man, but he is our Pres for crying out loud! And..take a big breath,...his speech on healthcare was pretyy darn good. even John McCain agreed. Where is our common sense people? PS LOVE the security words...auterspe?
You're the WOMAN! I want you for my president.
Keep up the pressure (but I agree the damage may alreday be done)!
http://www.sltrib.com/news/ci_13303769?source=rss
I see it more like this:
---------Liberal\---------Conservative
I blame in on the christian coalition and other like minded ultra right wing groups.
oh, and Fox News too.
Last comment is interesting - I think it illustrates how unwilling people are to take a step back and actually try to reach common ground.
I also think there is a strong argument to be made that the very definition of "conservative" indicates that it is not a changing state moving to the far extreme. Yet it seems to look extreme when people actually take a stand to try to preserve what they value the most. It has become extreme to not give in to every whim of pressure because it is the popular thing to do.
I respect the man and his office as the leader of our country. No problem with the kids hearing him speak. It was the right thing to do to release the speech first given the current political climate.
Let's not fool ourselves into thinking that people haven't been outspoken about past speeches - here is an interesting read about the Democratic response to the "less-evil" of the Bush presidents: http://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/blogs/beltway-confidential/When-Bush-spoke-to-students-Democrats-investigated-held-hearings-57694347.html
PS - Hi Erica - I walked in on Chiara blog-hopping and she had me take a look because she liked how effectively you expressed your views.
I overheard Erica's conversation with the superintendent, because I was with her and Max and Mira, going to Max's first piano lesson. I just want to say that I admired Erica even more than ever, and that's hardly possible. She got the superintendent by the throat, and in a calm, quiet voice said he had no backbone. It was masterful. Had she screamed or cursed, it would have had little effect. It was quiet, rational, and right on the money. Cheers, Erica.
love you. this. is. amazing. i wish everyone could read this.
I am so late to the party on this. Loved both the posts on this.
Well said. I just got off the phone with Principal Strauss myself after sending her an email last night concerning the President's speech. I was shocked to learn how many parents had called in against the speech and told her that not all of us are so politically polarized.
Please don't move Erica, Utah needs more thinking citizens!
I think your last statement,
"Every person who called in opposition to the speech just told their kids that it's okay not to listen to anyone who thinks differently than themselves."
was a bit harsh. They didn't play the speach in our district in Texas, but if they had I would have gone in to watch with my son. I think a lot of the issues had more to do, not with the speech itself, but with the suggested curriculum that went along with it. I wasn't worried about what the president would say. I thought the speech was good, but I was worried about how the teacher might use the speech. I don't think that makes me closed minded, I think it makes me a concerned parent.
p.s. If you really want to get far away from Utah, you might like Texas!!
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